Research Insight #001
Children Learn Empathy by Watching Adults
When we think about teaching children empathy, we often think about telling them to "be kind."
But research suggests that children learn just as much - if not more - by observing the adults around them.
The everyday moments matter:
• How we treat a cashier.
• How we speak about people who are different from us.
• Whether we listen before we judge.
• Whether we include someone who feels left out.
Children don't simply hear our values - they watch us live them.
Research in child development suggests that empathy grows through relationships, observation, and repeated everyday experiences.
As adults, parents, educators, mentors, neighbors, and community members, we all help shape the social environment children grow up in.
Sometimes the most meaningful lessons aren't the ones we teach.
They're the ones we model.
250 Voices. One Future.
America's story has always been told through its people.
As America approaches its 250th birthday, House of US invites people across the country to pause for a moment and reflect on one simple question:
What is one good thing about America?
In a time when our attention is often drawn to what divides us, this campaign is an invitation to reflect on the values and experiences we still share. By taking a moment to recognize the good in our communities, our neighbors, and one another, we strengthen the common ground that connects us all.
We invite people of every age, background, and experience to add their voice to this growing national collection. Every story - whether simple or profound - becomes part of a shared reflection on the values, people, and everyday moments that make America home for so many.
Together, these voices remind us that while we may see the world differently, we all have the capacity to recognize the good, celebrate our shared humanity, and build a future rooted in unity, kindness, and belonging.
If you'd like to share your story, visit our Blog Page and add your voice to the conversation.
Join us. Share your voice. Be one of the 250.
